Every guy has a certain type of girl, unfortunately not all guys dare to reveal that. The reason may be related to “social customs” that prevent them from doing so. Take fat girls for example. Liking a fat girl can be embarrassing in many countries and even though the elimination of discrimination against anything is spreading all over the world, the stereotype can’t really go away.

If you like a fat girl and want to ask her out but are shy then reading this article will “toughen” you up.

Even the famous actress and comedian Melissa McCarthy once said that even in the United States there are still many girls who feel bad about their appearance and it’s usually related to being “fat”. The body positivity movement that is spreading in many countries has indeed succeeded in significantly reducing racial bias but it has not been very successful with body shape, especially the female body shape.

The social tendency to ridicule fat girls is detrimental and it has destroyed the relationships of many couples around the world.

If you’re still unsure about your potential fat lover then these reasons will reinforce your initial intentions:

1. Skinny is really just one type of body shape and it doesn’t mean beautiful.

Yes, thin does not mean beautiful and thin people can be beautiful and not. You may have been influenced by the many beauty advertisements that feature slim, thin girls portrayed as princesses from heaven. That’s not true and never will be. In reality, only a small percentage of the global female population has the body shape that beauty advertisements portray. Being overly influenced by those “dream” images can lead you to lie to your heart. Maybe you basically like fat girls and fat nudes stimulate you more but you lie to yourself because you feel inadequate. Admit what’s inside you and you’ll be at peace. It’s about recognizing who you are and not pretending to be someone else. You are who you are and not someone else no matter how attractive that person is.

2. Fatphobia is something you should avoid

Fatphobia is a condition where a person is deathly afraid of everything that can be associated with fatness and if you have an unnatural fear of fat people maybe the problem is with your fear, not the people. If you can realize that fatphobia is bad and fat isn’t scary then you can be sure you can date a fat woman you like. It’s that simple.

3. Shyness is just an illusion

Of course, shame should always be there but it’s actually an illusion and the result of an interconnected process of cultural construction. You have to realize that fat is a body type and there is nothing shameful about it, just as there is with thin, slim, muscular, and so on. Shame is

an illusion and if you can sort it out properly then you can move forward. If you are being “bullied” for your choices, realize that they are ignorant fools and they might even be the same people as you but with hypocrisy.

4. Big-breasted fat women are actually closest to the classic version of beautiful women

If you study the history of ancient beauties, you will find that very few of them were thin or slim. Most of them were of medium build and tended to be fat, and some cultures even seemed to worship fat women. So what you have to understand is that the perception of female beauty can change over time and you shouldn’t always be in that trend. If you are satisfied with a fat woman why should you pretend to like a thin woman for trend reasons?

5. Fat doesn’t always mean unhealthy

Yes, obesity is unhealthy but not all fat people are obese. Some people are fat because they are built that way and that is due to genetic factors. There is nothing wrong with that as long as there are no signs of obesity. So if you like a fat girl don’t rush to prejudge that she is a woman who can’t take care of her health.

6. Fat women are usually more stimulating

Yes, fat women are usually more stimulating than thin women and it has to do with their “assets”. Most men prefer women with large breasts to women with “no breasts”. So what should you be worried about? Are you worried about social perception more than your own satisfaction?

These 6 reasons should make you realize that there is nothing wrong with dating a fat woman. But you have to remember that you shouldn’t date a woman because she’s fat. You should date a woman because you really like her, whether she’s fat or not. I hope this short article has enlightened you.